“远嫁，十有九伤”
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max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); letter-spacing: 0.5px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; line-height: 28px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(192, 80, 77);font-size: 24px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></span></em></span></p></section></section><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">有个读者私信我说：“我和男友是大学同学，相恋3年，但我是江苏的，他是武汉的，我们还是很相爱的，但是现在涉及到结婚，父母很反对，我该怎么说服他们呢？”</span><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">我当下没有给出答案，因为，<strong>关于姑娘远嫁的问题，永远不会有十全十美的解决方案，一切在于当事人的利弊取舍</strong>。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">因为，当你决定远嫁的那一刻，就注定有人会伤心。</span></p><p style="text-align: center; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong style="font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><em style="font-size: 16px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 28px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(192, 80, 77);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="font-size: 16px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(192, 80, 77);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(192, 80, 77);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 28px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(192, 80, 77);font-size: 24px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">01</span></strong></span></em></span></strong></span></em></span></strong></span></em></span></strong></span></em></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">今年春节，是我小表姐远嫁后的第一个春节。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">这一年，是她第一次大年夜不在家，大年初一、初二也赶不回来，她必须要跟着丈夫把男方家的几个长辈的年拜完再回来。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">大家吃完年夜饭，姨夫突然看着我，对我说了一句：“我想囡囡了。”（我表姐乳名）</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">我一时红了眼。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">虽然，过几天就相见了，虽然平时也可以打电话，视频聊天，但始终不及女儿能站在自己面前，能清楚地知道她过得不好不好，能真实的触摸到女儿的温度。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;">“都说，女儿是妈妈的小棉袄，然而，不管你承认不承认，远嫁的女儿，你注定，是父母丢失了的孩子。”</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;"></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">夏七夕在《后来我们都哭了》中，写过一段话：<br>“直到看到父母的第一根白发，父母掉落的第一颗牙齿，父母越来越浑浊的双眼，才会真正明白，我们真的长大了，父母，真的老了。 </span><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;">父母，是这个世界上最孤独的人类。”</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">你不在家里，他们吃的每一顿饭，都是随便吃吃的，小棉袄不在家，谁还高兴做排骨汤，这么麻烦。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">你不在家里，他们很久没有好好聊过天了，为了能和你多说说话，一把年纪了还要学社交软件，挂掉微信语音的那一刻，你不知道他们家里有多死寂。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;">你不在家里，他们想你，却不敢打扰你，这才是他们最孤独的地方。</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;">远嫁，就是一次以年为单位的远行。</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: center; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong style="font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><em style="font-size: 16px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 28px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(192, 80, 77);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="font-size: 16px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(192, 80, 77);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(192, 80, 77);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 28px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(192, 80, 77);font-size: 24px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">02</span></strong></span></em></span></strong></span></em></span></strong></span></em></span></strong></span></em></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">我一个学姐，山东人，不顾家里劝阻，毕业就远嫁广州。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">小夫妻两个还是挺恩爱的，两个人都忙事业，渐渐地，学姐就不怎么给家里打电话了，因为距离远，休息时间有限，从前是一个月回家一次，现在一个季度都不见能给家里几个电话。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">学姐的父母也很少联系女儿，也怕她担心家里，耽误工作。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">学姐每个月都给父母打钱，以此来尽孝，她也能安心。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">可是就在去年十月，她的妈妈突发脑溢血，没抢救过来，她没能来得及看到母亲最后一面。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">在等救护车的十几分钟里，她父亲给她打了很多个视频电话，就怕她母亲撑不过去，想让她再听一听女儿的声音。但是，学姐一个都没接。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;">回家办丧礼的那几天，父亲一句话都没和她说。</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">她和父亲提出要接他去广州，却被严词拒绝：“女儿，我都这把年纪了，跟你去了广州，你忙你的，我等于一个能说说话的人都没有，<strong>我只想在这里，离你妈近一点儿</strong>。”</span></p><p style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;"></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">她回家办完丧礼，然后回到广州，根本无法安心继续工作。</span><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">曾经看到过这样一句话：<br>“真正的恐惧，不是安静的状态，而是变化的动态，指的就是从希望变成绝望的那一瞬间。”</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">她就这样陷入了恐惧，她歉疚，但也觉得自己并没有这么十恶不赦。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">她问我：我远嫁，真的错了吗？</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">我真的无法回答她。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;">因为人生往往就是这样，你想要的，往往无法两全。</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">想要追求自己的幸福，往往就无法顾及父母，而当你想顾及父母的时候，却也不甘心就这样过一生。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">人这一辈子，真的很难有不后悔的事情。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">你要问我，父母和爱人哪一个更重要，我无法笃定地告诉你，因为他们都是你最爱的人。但是有一件事你必须要明白，生养之恩，父母从不需要你报答，但是你却从来不能心安理得，因为你真的欠他们的。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;">远嫁，始终是一次无法圆满的抉择。</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: center; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong style="font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><em style="font-size: 16px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 28px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(192, 80, 77);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="font-size: 16px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(192, 80, 77);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(192, 80, 77);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 28px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(192, 80, 77);font-size: 24px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">03</span></strong></span></em></span></strong></span></em></span></strong></span></em></span></strong></span></em></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">远嫁到底是一种什么样的体验？</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">小卿通过网聊认识了现在的丈夫。当初，两个人也是你侬我侬，非常恩爱。在决定结婚之前，小卿的父母再三地问，<strong>你真的决定了吗，你真的能照顾好自己吗</strong>？</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">她很坚定地回答说：“我可以。谁还不会洗个衣服，做个饭了。婆婆也说以后可以帮着带孩子，没有你们想得这么不堪。”</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">但是一切似乎都不是她想得那样顺理成章。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">夫妻俩吵架后，她不敢和父母抱怨。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">吃不惯当地的饭菜，丈夫和婆家人也吃不惯她做的饭菜，但是她只能将就大多数人。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">受了委屈，身边没有知己好友可以倾诉。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">她放弃了自己过去所有的交际圈子，去融入丈夫的交际圈。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">但是她丈夫对她也算是还是蛮好的，力所能及的，能给她的，也都会给，但是她依然觉得日子过得心里很空。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">因为，<strong>她的前方都是陌路，而身后却没有靠山</strong>。</span></p><p style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;"></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">小卿说：“说来，你们可能觉得我矫情。但是我真的时常在夜里想起我妈做的咕咾肉，我爸会在我看剧的时候端切好的水果给我，我从前不开心，只要回到爸妈身边，我就觉得窝心。但是我不顾他们劝阻远嫁，现在我真的不好意思开口说我的不开心。”</span><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">其实，这一点也不矫情。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">小卿已经算是比较幸运的远嫁女了。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">要知道，有数不清的姑娘在远嫁以后，婚姻并没有那么幸福。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">被家暴了无处可躲；丈夫出轨了，却没办法脱身，因为自己所有的一切都搭在里面；性格不合，日子不舒心，却也不能像平常感情破裂的夫妻那样离婚，因为，你努力在这里扎根了，把根再一次拔出来，得多费劲。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">借用网友茗艺堂的一句话，提醒所有娶了远嫁女孩的男人：</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">“娶了远方女孩的男孩子们，请更珍惜身边的妻子。她，为了一个你放弃了过往的一切，你买断了她的后半生，请深深对她负责，如果你不能，请不要娶她，因为，你永远伤不起。”</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;">远嫁，就是一场豪赌。</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: center; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong style="font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><em style="font-size: 16px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;line-height: 28px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(192, 80, 77);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="font-size: 16px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(192, 80, 77);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(192, 80, 77);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 16px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 28px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(192, 80, 77);font-size: 24px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">04</span></strong></span></em></span></strong></span></em></span></strong></span></em></span></strong></span></em></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">所以，说了那么多，到底能不能远嫁？</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;">当然能。</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">不过，你真的考虑好了吗？你能顾得过来吗？你真的有这个信心吗？</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">如果你可以，那就去追求你要的人生吧。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">其实，你的父母，最怕的不是你远嫁，而是远嫁以后，真的远水救不到近火，当不了你的后背，也饱尝思念之苦。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">希望你好好思量，如果你要远嫁，请你务必要幸福。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;">希望你离开父母了，也要记得多联系，离得再远，也要记得多回家，再累，也要学会放下手里的事情，去陪陪父母。</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 25px;"></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;">你要知道，你和父母相聚的时间，已经进入倒计时了。见一次，少一次。</span></strong><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">不要像我那个学姐一样，等一切都来不及了，留下的，是一辈子都抹不去的悔恨。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">父母在的时候，我们都想远离，我们嫌烦，嫌啰嗦。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;">但只要父母在，我们就必须记得归途。</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 25px; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;">远嫁从来不是判断题，而是概率题</span></strong><span style="font-size: 15px;">。你把条件设置好了，或许你就是那个幸福的分子，如果你做不到，你就是那个远嫁不幸的分母。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; 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