宋丹丹的悲剧人生：“我嫁了一个人渣，还生了一个废物！”
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class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">便能轻松拿到上千万的片酬。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">但实际上，这根本不是一件新鲜事。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">近几年来“圈子”里乱象横生，<br class="bizsvr_08"></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">很多明星打着“演员”的旗号，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">却对演艺事业毫无敬畏之心。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">有人说，流量代表一切，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">这是一个只需要偶像的时代。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">直到综艺《演员的诞生》出现</span></strong><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">为了让观众看到“真正的演员”，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">节目组请来了老中青三代，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">几十位演艺明星。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">评委也由影帝刘烨、</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">影后章子怡前来助阵。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_067">《演员的诞生》海报</span></p><p><br></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_069"></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">然而相比上面说的这两位，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">有一位她既没有获得过帝后奖杯、</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">也不曾在外国大片露脸，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">甚至连国际电影节的红毯都没走过，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">所以她究竟凭什么坐在评委席上？</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">这个问题的答案，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">也许当你看完她的履历便会知道了——</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">她是国家一级演员、</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">北京人民艺术剧院的台柱子、</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">从艺35载，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">几乎横扫所有话剧奖项；</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">曾先后10次登上春晚舞台，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">是业界公认的“小品女王”。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">她出道至今一路星光熠熠，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">却在人生巅峰时遭遇婚变，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">几经诋毁，多次想到自杀，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">人到中年才如获新生。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">她是中国喜剧女演员第一人、</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">是不折不扣的“殿堂级”艺术家。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">她，是宋丹丹。</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹原名宋长英，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">1961年8月25日，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">出生于老北京的一个军区大院中。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">早年间她的父母曾在解放区参加革命，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">战争胜利后便随部队一起来到北京。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋家从祖上便是知识分子，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">父亲在退休前是北京文联的书记，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">母亲也是中学老师。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_067">宋丹丹与母亲</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">两个姐姐从小便学习成绩优异，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">大哥宋北杉不仅是北外的高材生，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">而且还成功走上了仕途，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">曾经是山西省副省长，</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">如今更是担任了全国政协副秘书长、</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">全国工商联专职副主席。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_067">宋丹丹大哥宋北杉</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">小时候的宋丹丹很胆小，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">因为头发天生有些发黄，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">样貌也不似其他女生那般精致，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">所以班级里的同学，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">经常会给她起各种外号。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">在学校受了欺负，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹便只能哭着跑回家</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">请求哥哥姐姐的帮助。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">以至于到后来很长一段时间，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">二姐只要一提起小妹，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">想起的便是她流着鼻涕大哭的邋遢样子。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_0207">宋丹丹童年照</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹小时候的性格有些清高，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">大院里那么多人，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">她很少跟什么人表现的很亲密，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">唯独对家中的大哥很是崇拜。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">那时候大哥在外地办公，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">隔很长一段时间才会回家一次。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">每次知道大哥要回来了，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹都会好好的打扮一番，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">希望能给哥哥留下一个好印象。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_067">宋丹丹全家福</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">但因为兄妹俩年龄相差甚大，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋北杉一直对这个小妹爱答不理，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">有一次更是直接冲她说：</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">“你怎么这么胖？”</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">因着大哥的这一句话，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">宋丹丹恨不得一辈子都吃不饱。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋家一共四个孩子，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹是家里的幺子，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">也是当时全家最不争气的那一个。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">1980年宋丹丹参加了高考，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">但由于成绩不理想她落榜了。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">家里人让她复读，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">而她却谈起了恋爱，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">根本无心学习。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">眼瞅着距离考试的时间越近，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹的心里很是没底，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">走投无路的她心想，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">已经到了这个节骨眼了，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">要么死，要么就只能逃跑了。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">就这样，高考前夕，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹带着从家里偷来的80块钱，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">离家出走到了青岛的姑姑家，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">直到三天后才被父亲找回。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">考大学彻底没了着落，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹便只能另谋出路。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">1981年的一个下午，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">朋友张旗递给她一张报纸，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">上面登着人民艺术剧院的招生简章。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">当时的宋丹丹对话剧一窍不通，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">但为了有学上、给自己找点事儿做，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">她还是决定去试试。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">也许真的是老天爷赏饭吃。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">虽然在这之前没有经过任何专业培训，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">但宋丹丹还是在诸多考生中脱颖而出，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">并顺利通过了初试。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">到了复试，老师让考生表演诗朗诵，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">毫无准备的宋丹丹从裤兜掏出一张报纸，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">然后大声的把人艺的招生简章读了一遍；</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">后来老师又要求表演舞蹈，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">看着周围又是跳民族舞、</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">又是跳霹雳舞的同学，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">她心一横，直接跳了一段广播体操。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">“别出心裁”的表演，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">让在场的老师对宋丹丹印象很不错。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">但其中一个老师却很犹豫，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">眼见老师站在她面前左瞧瞧，右看看，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">然后悄么声说了一句：</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">“不行不行，这孩子将来准是个大胖子。”</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">听了这话宋丹丹急了，张口便说：</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">“不是有半年的试读时间吗？</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">这期间肯定能瘦下来！</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">如果我做不到，</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">你们随时开除我！”</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">凭借天生的自信和骨子里的倔劲儿，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹终于成功考入了人艺的表演训练班。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">试读期间为了达到承诺给老师的体重，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">她没有一顿饭敢吃饱，</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">直到半年后，宋丹丹整整瘦了30斤。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">1983年，宋丹丹成功毕业，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">并成为北京人艺的一名正式演员。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">虽然文化课成绩着实一般，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">但其在表演上却有着异于常人的天赋。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">1984年，仅仅出道一年的她，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">便凭借在《红白喜事》的优异表现，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">获得了文化部观摩演出一等奖，</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">和北京市政府表彰优秀演员奖。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_067">《红白喜事》剧照</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">然而演艺事业的顺风顺水，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">并没有让宋丹丹开心太久，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">因为她失恋了。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹的初恋叫袁钢，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">是一名退伍转业军人。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">身材挺拔、长相英俊，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">当年两人原本相约一起备战高考，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">但她却一心都扑在了恋爱上。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">虽然自己因沉迷爱情没考上大学，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">但初恋男友却考上了北大法学系。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">上世纪八十年代初，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">中国迎来了出国热潮。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">袁钢的哥哥姐姐都相继出了国，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">有一天宋丹丹去男友家吃饭，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">几个人围坐在饭桌前吃的热火朝天时，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">袁妈妈忽然提议，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">让儿子拿护照去买色拉油，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">她这才知道原来男友也要出国了。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">相恋了5年的初恋男友要出国，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">自己却是最后一个知道的，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">这一天她突然明白，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">原来袁钢从来没有</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">把二人的命运看成是一起的，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">他也从未想过要和自己走人生的道路。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">付出了多年真心的爱情无疾而终，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">这让宋丹丹很受伤。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">与袁钢分手后，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹很渴望用一段新的感情，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">来冲淡内心的苦闷。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">于是在1985年，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹和只认识了三个月的，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">第一任爱人结婚了。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">爱情的开始总是充满甜蜜的，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">但是这份幸福却没能维持多久。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">当时宋丹丹的爱人是一名公务员，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">每天都活在一板一眼的体制内。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">而她却是活跃在舞台上，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">恨不得把自己都掏空的“艺术家”。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">随着时间越来越久，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">二人之间的隔阂也越来越多，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">于是结婚一年后宋丹丹提出了离婚。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">那天在民政局办完手续，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">二人还一起吃了饭、看了电影。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">临走时二人都没说话，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">只是相互挥手道别，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">仿佛今天过后二人还是夫妻，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">一切都不会改变。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">“分手后他便消失了，</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">各种机缘巧合，</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">我遇见了他的小学同学、儿时邻居、</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">朋友、甚至胡同口卖冰棍的大嫂，</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">唯独没能再遇见他。”</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">经历过闪婚闪离之后，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹的感情进入了空窗期。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">这期间她开始把更多的时间放在工作上。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">开始只是活跃在话剧舞台上的她，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">渐渐开始走到幕前，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">转型成为一名电视演员。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">离婚后的宋丹丹先后拍摄了</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">《寻找回来的世界》、</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">《月牙儿》等多部经典作品，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">并凭此获得了飞天奖、</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">国际电影节银奖等诸多奖项。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_067">宋丹丹话剧剧照</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">1988年宋丹丹进入《纵火犯》剧组，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">并在那里认识了她的第二任丈夫英达。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">彼时的英达也刚离婚，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">是剧组里的副导演。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹去客串，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">没有戏时两人就喜欢蹲在一边说话，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">一来二去的，变成了恋人。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">1989年7月，宋丹丹与英达登记结婚，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">没过多久儿子英巴图出生，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">三人便开始了长达7年的家庭生活。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">当时的英达刚刚27岁，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">还是一名名不见经传的小导演，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">而宋丹丹却已凭借春晚小品《懒汉相亲》</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">成为了家喻户晓的”魏淑芬“。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_06"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_067">1990年春晚 宋丹丹扮演魏淑芬</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">英达的身上总带着一股子傲气。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">他不甘一辈子给别人打工，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">一心想要创造出来一部属于自己的作品，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">却始终没能找到机会。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">所以刚结婚的那几年，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">二人的开支多由宋丹丹来负责。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">然而对此宋丹丹并没有什么怨言，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">因为她始终觉得，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_0693"><strong class="bizsvr_08">日子是两个人的，</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_0693"><strong class="bizsvr_08">不用计算的那么清楚。</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">93年英达的首部作品《我爱我家》开播。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">电视剧一经播出便立刻收到各方好评，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">收视率也一路上升。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">而导演英达，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">也凭此赚的盆满钵满，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">并一跃成为了中国情景喜剧教父。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">有天他抱着六万块钱的现金回家，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">看见宋丹丹后高兴地将钱一股脑撒向空中，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">二人看着漫天的钞票笑的像疯子。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">那时候他们二人是演艺圈里</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">出了名的模范夫妇。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">在媒体面前，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">他们从不掩饰对彼此的爱慕。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">夫妻二人一个导、一个演，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">不管走到哪里都是成双成对。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">事业上他们是相辅相成的默契搭档，</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">生活中他们是伉俪情深的恩爱夫妻。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">然而《我爱我家》的成功，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">不仅带给他们带来了事业上的成功，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">更给二人的婚姻带来了不可磨灭的伤痛。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">随着工作越来越忙，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹与英达相处的时间，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">也愈发的少了起来。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">而且二人的性格都太过强势</span></strong>，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">经常因为一些小事吵得不可开交。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">而且在这期间，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">还传出了英达与</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">《我爱我家》编剧梁欢的绯闻。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_067">英达在我爱我家的片场</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">曾经幸福美满的生活，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">在无休止的争吵中变成了一团乱麻；</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">当初恩爱无比的两人，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">也在七年之痒的魔咒中变得同床异梦。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">长时间的家庭冷暴力，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">让宋丹丹无比期待温暖，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">她真的太渴望爱与被爱了。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">就在这种情况下，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">她开始了生命唯一一次的婚外恋。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">在发现自己“出轨”的第十天，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹拨通了英达的电话，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">她先是询问了其与梁欢的关系，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">在得到对方斩钉截铁般的否定后，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹提出了离婚。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">而对于自己的这个决定，</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">英达几乎是想都没想的就答应了。</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">“就请你给我多一点点时间，</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">再多一点点问候，</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">不要一切都带走；</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">就请你给我多一点点空间，</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">再多一点点温柔，</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">不要让我如此难受”</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">这是宋丹丹和英达共同听得最后一首歌，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">也一如二人婚姻的结局。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">1997年的第一天，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">两人相约去民政局办理了离婚手续。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">回家的路上两人同乘一辆车，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">只是这一次，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">他们再也没能一起到达终点。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">英达下车后，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹捡到了他落在车上的传呼，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_0693"><strong class="bizsvr_08">却正好看到了梁欢发来的催促短信：</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">“事情都办好了吗？”</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">“什么时候回来？”</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_067">英达与梁欢</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">爱了7年的枕边人，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">成了伤害自己最深的人。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">爱人的背叛让宋丹丹瞬间坠入低谷。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹几乎是什么都没带的，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">便逃离了那个曾经的家。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">她想把与那个人有关的一切，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">都留在那座房子里，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">甚至包括了她的儿子巴图。</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">曾经那些所谓交好的朋友，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">也齐齐选择站队到了英达那里。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_0693"><strong class="bizsvr_08">婚姻、家庭、朋友……</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_0693"><strong class="bizsvr_08">宋丹丹什么都没有了。</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">接二连三的婚姻失败，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">让她彻底失去了生活的信心，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">每天躺在家中以泪洗面，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">甚至多次想到自杀。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">这期间她虽多次相亲，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">但却无一成功。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">自己已经35岁了，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">女人一生中最美好的年纪已经结束了，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">她觉得自己不会再拥有爱情了。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">这样昏暗无光的日子持续了很久。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">直到有一天宋丹丹去学校接儿子放学，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">门卫大爷认出了她，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">并跟她说：</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">“每个周五你来接儿子他都可高兴了，</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">嘴里不停念叨着妈妈来了！”</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">儿子的一句话让宋丹丹忽然明白了，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">她是一个女人，但同时也是一位母亲，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">为了能给儿子更好的生活，</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">她不能再这样颓废下去了！</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">不久后宋丹丹要回了儿子的抚养权，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">开始了艰难单亲妈妈生活。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">为了能给巴图一个吃穿不愁的童年，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹拼了命的工作，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">与儿子见面的时间也不多，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">几乎每一次都是在老师的办公室。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">上学时巴图被评为<strong class="bizsvr_08">“全校第一闹”</strong>的孩子，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹几乎每天都能接到各种投诉电话。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">她每周都要跑去老师办公室挨一顿数落，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">甚至曾当着全班师生的面三鞠躬道歉，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">被学生家长轻视。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_0693"><strong class="bizsvr_08">那是她这辈子做过最丢人的事儿。</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">童年时期的巴图很顽皮，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">顽皮到多次被学校开除。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">眼看儿子已经在国内“混”不下去了，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">宋丹丹便只能想方设法的把儿子送出国。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">当时的宋丹丹只会零星的几句外语，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">但她还是带着儿子去了英国。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">巴图那时只有14岁，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">而他就读的学校和家之间，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">却需要坐小火车才能通行。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">于是宋丹丹便每天都在英国陪着他，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">教他认方向、坐火车。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">那个时候在国外，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">她不是那个万人瞩目的大明星，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_0693"><strong class="bizsvr_08">她只是一个渴望孩子平安长大的母亲。</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">巴图在国外念了5年的书，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">这期间产生的所有费用，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">都由宋丹丹一人承担。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">作为亲生父亲的英达在这过程中，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">不仅没有为儿子出过一份力，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">反而说既然要开始新的生活，</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">那便要把过去的一切都翻过，</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">包括不见儿子。</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_01089"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">相爱多年竟换来一句如此混账的话，</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">怎么让人不寒心？</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">但好在儿子总能给他慰藉。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">去年巴图曾在一档节目中，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">为母亲献唱《当你老了》。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">曲调一出，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">无需言语便感动了在场所有的人。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br></p><p class="bizsvr_02">h0368pm01st<br></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_067">巴图演唱《当你老了》</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">就像视频中她自己所说的，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">作为母亲，宋丹丹从不会望子成龙。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">他的学习成绩可以不拔尖、</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">他的样貌也可以不出众，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">但只要他<strong class="bizsvr_08">善良、正直、勇敢、阳光</strong>便够了。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">独自抚养儿子长大、</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">遭前夫诋毁、出轨，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">宋丹丹所走的每一步路都是坎坷的，</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">但好在她挺了过来。</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_051"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">如今的宋丹丹不仅收获了甜蜜美满的家庭，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">更可以和老公的前妻成为挚友。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">起起落落过后，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">她看透了生命的本质，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">也活得更加洒脱与随性。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_067">宋丹丹与现任老公的合照</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">作为一个女人，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">生活给予了宋丹丹太多痛苦，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">但熬过之后再回头看，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">她还是选择坚强与原谅。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">“所有人都会经历苦难，不要怕。</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">跟谁待在一起舒服就和谁在一起。</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">谁离开我我都不挽留，</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">对任何不喜欢的都要善良的说：</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08">再见，不远送。”</strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_015"><br class="bizsvr_08"></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">没有人的一生是可以一帆风顺的，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">但阳光总在风雨后。</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010"><strong class="bizsvr_08"><span class="bizsvr_035">生命中走过的每一段路都算数，</span></strong></span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">愿所有人都能像她一般，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">熬过困苦，踩碎迷茫，</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><span class="bizsvr_010">收获属于自己的淡然与坦荡！</span></p><p class="bizsvr_02"><br></p><p class="bizsvr_01209"><span class="bizsvr_01210">锐视界简介：关注微信公众号 锐视界（ID: 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